Who do I want to be? Implied within the question is who do I want to be perceived as. or Who do I want others to say that I am? But the more important question is, who do I want to be even if it is not recognized by my peers? and more importantly, if I do in fact achieve those qualities, will I be satisfied even if it is not validated by others?
"Our deepest desire - for significance - finds satisfaction in the esteem of God"
- "When Faith is Not Enough" Kelly James Clark